numb.
because that's the only thing i'm feeling right now.
i do feel like ranting out so many things tonight.
but i think it's just not a good idea as i'm totally numb,and the words and thoughts can never be expressed out quite nicely,properly and correctly.
well,sometimes,numb-ing myself do feels good.really good.so let me just keep things to myself,for tonight only.
anyway,found this somewhere.
pretty interesting.
LOVE vs INFATUATION
*Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set of glands calling to another.*Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
*Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and places about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.*Love is quite understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence even when he/she is away. Miles do not separate you. You want him/her nearer, but near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait.
*Infatuation says, "We must get married right away! I can't risk losing you!"*Love says, "Be patient. Do not panic. Plan your future with confidence."
*Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you can admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure it will end-- in intimacy.*Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
*Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away you wonder if he/she is cheating. Sometimes you check.*Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. Your beloved feels that also and makes them even more trustworthy.
*Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will.
*Love is an upper. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person.So,
love is real, and it lasts.
Infatuation is magical, mystical, very unreal, and it will always goes away.
agree,no more.
Labels: the second;a different kind of love.
♥ 8:14 PM